Clare Mauremootoo: A Woman’s Brave Battle
At the age of 39, Clare Mauremootoo found herself facing an
unimaginable challenge – motor neuronopathy, a debilitating disease that
gradually weakens the muscles. This cruel illness slowly robbed her of
her ability to walk, speak, swallow, and even breathe.
Clare’s primary concern was for her husband John and their two sons,
Ben and Jack, who depended on her. In her last months, she devoted
herself to ensuring that her family would be taken care of long after
she was gone.
The Quest for Love
Clare knew that her time was limited, but her love for her husband
lingered in her heart. Determined to find him the happiness he deserved,
she set out to find him a new partner who would appreciate him and love
their children.
She went above and beyond, arranging dates between John and the
compassionate nurses at Somerset’s Weston Hospice where she spent her
final months. Clare reached out to hospice representatives, determined
to ensure that John had the opportunity for love even after her passing.
A Reluctant Journey
John, devastated by Clare’s illness, was not prepared for the idea of
finding love again. But Clare was there, guiding him forward with her
unwavering love. “I don’t care how you meet someone,” she often said,
even suggesting some of their friends as potential matches.
As Clare’s health deteriorated, she and John made the difficult
decision that their sons’ last meeting with their mother would be on
February 11th. On February 19th, 2007, Clare celebrated her final
Valentine’s Day with John, passing away just four days later.
Embracing Love Once More
In the wake of Clare’s passing, John found himself alone, longing for
her presence. Remembering her wish for him to find happiness again, he
bravely joined a dating website in May.
It was through this step that John connected with Julie Macfarlane, a
nurse who had recently gone through a divorce and had two children of
her own. John shared the news with his sons, who were hesitant at first
but gradually warmed up to Julie and her children over time.
In March 2008, the two families took a significant step forward and
moved in together. Then, in April 2012, John and Julie were married,
with Clare’s spirit guiding them all. Their children played important
roles in the wedding, embracing the new chapter of their lives.
A Mother’s Blessing
Reflecting on their journey, John speaks of Clare’s unwavering love
and her wish for their happiness. “Clare wanted us to be happy, and I
believe she is looking down on us, smiling,” he says.
Clare’s incredible act of love lives on as her family continues to
thrive, finding joy and support in one another. Through her bravery and
selflessness, Clare taught us the true meaning of love – the
extraordinary lengths we go to ensure the happiness of those we hold
dear.
